The purest possibility is to be yourself--flaws and all.  What an inspiration, lovely lady.  This necklace, with its neutral scheme, provides endless opportunity, allowing you to shine however you please.  Five strands of polished bone beads mix with gilt brass beads from India, all clasped by a 1930s ivory celluloid buckle that may be worn at front, side, or back depending on the look you love at the moment.  Measures 18.5" in length.